The Utility of In-Order-To

Show Notes Summary

In this thought-provoking episode of The Mindful CEO, Chris and Aaron explore the hidden power—and hidden cost—of living “in order to.” From the cultural addiction to productivity to the internalized need for justification, they unpack how this subtle phrase can quietly run the show, even when we think we're being intentional. What happens when we drop the agenda behind our actions? Is it possible to create and serve without a payoff? If you’ve ever found yourself chasing impact, validation, or even joy with a hidden “so that” attached, this episode is a must-listen.

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Timestamps

• 00:00 – Opening Riff: Noticing the phrase “in order to” and its grip

• 06:20 – The Productivity Drug: Culture’s obsession with doing for a reason

• 13:45 – Mic Drop Insight: “What if we just let it be enough?”

• 20:05 – Coaching Real Talk: When 'impact' becomes another ego strategy

• 27:30 – The Worthiness Loop: Justifying existence through output

• 33:50 – Parenting, Performance, and Proving

• 39:10 – Choosing to Create Without Conditions

• 46:15 – Final Reflections and Embodied Alternatives